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Parenting Tips & Advice
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Parenting Quick-Tips
- Struggling with toddler tantrums? Try using the “Fast Food Rule” – repeating your child’s “order” before you respond to him. For example, if your toddler insists on dressing himself, repeat “Self! Self! Self! You want to do it yourself!” before explaining that you’ll help with his shirt. This technique, promoted by Dr. Harvey Karp, shows your child that you’ve heard his message, and understand his frustration. The “Fast Food Rule” may not tame every tantrum, but it will certainly improve your child’s communication skills and show him that you recognize his feelings (even if you don’t necessarily agree!).
- Want to build your child’s math skills? Include your child as a "helper" when you're baking and cooking. Measuring, sorting, and following directions are early math experiences that will enhance his/her logical thinking skills!
- Have a picky eater? Make mealtime fun - use colorful bowls and plates; serve child-sized portions; have a backwards day when you eat dessert first, or have breakfast foods for dinner. Varying the routine may encourage even the pickiest eater to try some new things!
- Can’t bear to part with your child’s artwork? Reclaim some space on your refrigerator by scanner some painting onto your PC – you can then use the images as a screen saver, on your desk top, or as e-mail surprises for family members. Bonus: Use your child’s creations as personalized gift wrap for birthdays or holidays!
- Need help with a messy playroom? Sing! Every teacher knows that this is a surefire way to get a child's attention. Your little one is more likely to clean up, share his toys, or finish his dinner if you can make him laugh with a silly song about it.
- Is “time out” ineffective with your preschooler? Keep in mind that “time outs” are most effective when balanced with plenty of “time in.” The time you spend truly interacting with your child – playing, reading, snuggling, cooking, coloring, whatever! – is a perfect opportunity to praise her talents and strengths. Positive reinforcement during happy, playful “time in” helps your child gain trust and learn to respect your judgment. That trust helps her to cooperate and understand when you do need to resort to “time out.”
- Want to build your child’s literacy skills? Create an "office" for your child. Supply paper, pencils, markers, tape, and plenty of space for your child to "work." This activity encourages emerging literacy and gets you some to complete your own work, too. For extra fun, find a pen pal for your child. Children love to receive mail, and will enjoy this special relationship with a relative, neighbor, or friend.
- Is Western NY weather keeping you indoors? Plan a family game night. Board games, cards, or charades are great ways to spend "quality time” and encourage conversation. Include your child in decisions about what games to play, and this activity is sure to become a family favorite.
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